tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post6031627914925919799..comments2023-10-15T04:58:06.889-04:00Comments on Living in DD: Spanking - When To Draw the Line?IslaWintershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12640942403211174024noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post-47299551721064048532014-01-10T02:35:48.181-05:002014-01-10T02:35:48.181-05:00If you do the crime you should pay for it. I wish ...If you do the crime you should pay for it. I wish I had a man that would spank me when I'm bad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post-129021903643555362011-09-15T00:55:23.244-04:002011-09-15T00:55:23.244-04:00Another blogger from Canada!! Doesn't seem to ...Another blogger from Canada!! Doesn't seem to be too many of us that blog about DD so welcome...Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04713462104350765878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post-77807787718339834672011-07-25T04:43:11.680-04:002011-07-25T04:43:11.680-04:00If you are using spanking as a punishment, then I ...If you are using spanking as a punishment, then I think you have to look at what really works as a punishment. A punishment should change behavior. If you were doing something as serious as drinking and driving, or driving dangerously, then I don't think you could change that behavior with a spanking.<br /><br />In my case, I have had subs with problems that I felt were not within their real control. I didn't feel like punishing them would be good for them because I didn't think they would change in response to the punishment. It's not good to punish a sub if you know that they are going to continue to do the thing over and over. So, for that they have to make the change themselves, not with you in response to discipline.<br /><br />However, if you had someone that was a bit reckless with their driving, then giving them driving lessons under the threat of punishment for mistakes might well improve their performance. That might keep them (and others) safe.<br /><br />I think even if the person exhibits relatively severe misbehavior, then you can think about ways to create an environment where they will do better. You might want to think about what causes the more severe behavior and reduce the occurrence of that.<br /><br />I don't think of spanking as being limited to childish behavior or minor behavior problems. I think you can take on major issues, if you are sensitive and work at them carefully.<br /><br />I realize that this comment is a bit late, but your blog just showed up on my radar. Good luck with it!Rich Personhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01029518662880068066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post-27842835724368240112011-05-30T22:54:27.841-04:002011-05-30T22:54:27.841-04:00Yes, I can see what you're saying. Spanking re...Yes, I can see what you're saying. Spanking really isn't a childish punishment depending on how you look at it, and I do agree that a mature decision would have to have been made beforehand. I've read quite a few blogs where couples punish for severe offences, and it seems to really work for them! It takes time to work everything out, as you said. <br /><br />Thanks for commenting! :) Hope all is well!<br /><br />-IslaIslaWintershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12640942403211174024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3820749622437981762.post-15652252318822602882011-05-30T06:44:45.298-04:002011-05-30T06:44:45.298-04:00I found this interesting - whether something reall...I found this interesting - whether something really serious should be dealt with through a spanking. I know my husband wouldn't but that's because he just doesn't take dd really seriously. It would only occur to him for the little annoying things. But that's my loss.<br /><br />I don't think of spanking as really a childish punishment. If you two, as adults, feel that this is a serious way to handle your issues then you have made a mature decision about it. It takes time to work out all the details. Sounds like you're progressing well. About the little shovel - OWWWW! <br /><br />Hugs,<br />PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.com