I have known for a long time that spanking is something that interests me. Yup, I was one of "those" kids - looking up the word spank in the dictionary sent a little thrill up my spine. But it wasn't until my twenties that I began to realize that spanking was something I wanted to incorporate into my life. It all began when I stumbled upon a question online outlining a husband who spanks his wife. I had never known anything about a lifestyle where a wife was punished for her behaviour, and needless to say I was shocked...and intrigued. Over the year that followed, I found as many spanking and DD blogs and websites as I could. I read and I watched and I followed the stories of everyday people who engaged in DD relationships. I wondered if me, and my independent feminist side, could ever learn to live a lifestyle like that. While I knew that I wanted it in my heart, I was doubtful, afraid, and even a little ashamed. I never thought that I would find a man who would agree to such a lifestyle, nor did I think that I would ever be able to really submit to someone.
Then along came Leo.
While Leo never expressed an interest in spanking to me, I could sense some form of dominance in his personality. He was also crazy about me, and though I felt a little tentative, I finally told him about my secret interest that I kept hidden from everyone else. At first, I only mentioned the spanking part, which Leo understood as erotic spanking. While erotic spanking can be fun, and certainly a turn-on, I knew that I needed to dig deeper to be satisfied. I began mentioning tidbits about people in DD relationships, and blogs that I read online. I never told him what the blogs were, but I slowly began painting a clearer picture for him about what I really wanted. I eventually showed him some of the blogs and websites that I had been visiting so frequently, and he became immersed in my hidden world. He seemed a little startled, and a little hestitant as well, but he has begun to warm up to the idea and he is really taking his role as a dominant husband and HOH seriously. And consequently, something has clicked into place for me.
I guess I should post a little bit about myself. I'm a girl in my 20s from Canada, and Leo and I have been married for about a year and a half. We've been together for five years. I'm an outdoorsy girl, but I also love shopping and travelling and just cuddling up to watch a movie. Right now, Leo and I are still trying to establish our limits within DD. We only began the DD aspect of our relationship a few months ago, so it's really just beginning to grow and move beyond the budding stage. I know that some couples spank for severe infractions, such as speeding, drinking and driving, etc. For the moment, Leo and I are just focussing on little issues and personal improvement. We are just testing the waters and seeing what is comfortable for us.
I would love to get to know other women (and men too) who are involved in DD relationships. I think this blog will give me the opportunity to share my experiences and learn from the examples of others who live this lifestyle. So, if anyone out there happens to come across this blog, please don't hestitate to leave a comment. I'd love to hear from you!